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We don’t really know what day they died on. Extrapolating from the brutal details can only end with speculation. No solid fact. What is a fact, technically speaking, is that they could have died on two different days. It was almost certainly in two separate moments…

It has been five years of many separate moments.

The moment when the crown attorney assured me that the crime met the definition of first degree murder. And another when just before the trial we were told they would be accepting a plea of second instead.

The moment when the defense stated that arson was the most egregious of the aggravating factors.

And another when the sentencing judge congratulated them for sparing the court’s resources by reaching this plea.

Another when I was informed by mail after the trial that the chance for parole would be years sooner than what they printed in the headlines.

The moment this summer when C.S.C. called to inform me that they moved him to a lesser secure prison. When I questioned the decision they told me it was their policy to inform victims only after such moves were made. Then an hour later they called back to tell me they did not in fact move him.

There was the moment when the government voted against talking about Cassie and Molly’s Law. The same people who planned to make hate speech illegal – to legislate a human emotion – said it was too tricky to differentiate between the choice of a woman and the choice of the person that murders her.

And all the moments of exclusionary detailing by the media that prevented any criticism aimed at the lawmakers who shut down the conversation.

Then the moment those same people were chosen to govern again…

In this moment, on this terrible anniversary, I feel sad for my country. I brace myself for the moments that are yet to come.

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5 thoughts on “Five years…

  1. margaret SENNEMA says:

    I am mortified that this happens and it is like reliving a nightmare over & over for the families.Our justice system is only there to protect the guilty not the victims,makes me so angry & sad.

  2. John Taggart says:

    What a failed system.

    Living with our own nightmare with the murder of our daughter has been agonizingly painful. Add that with the thought that,in the end,the perpetrator will get off with anything less than what he is charged with. Would only victimize our family again.
    Prayers to all.

  3. Lindy Moran says:

    Makes me so sad that this is the decision of the “powers that be”. So very wrong in ever way and to even suggest that he would get out earlier, to live his life. Our only prayer that the decision he made on that day will live in his heart and soul forever. Prayers to you, Jeff.

  4. Marlene says:

    Jeff, apply to speak at the United Nations about what Canada & the Crown has done. Go on a speaking tour. Find the clauses in the Human Rights Treaty Canada has signed. You live in Windsor – this is not the place politically to find support.

  5. Pat Beckstead says:

    It seems to me the victims have no rights.The time has come to make changes concerning these brutal situations,,and the Gov;t and judicial system needs to get their nose out of their ass and do what should have been done a long time ago.CHANGE!If you do the crime you do the time.Where is common sense to-day?May all the Cassies and Mollys RIP.

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